Mary from Utah

My mother Nancy is 79. Up until last month she was still driving and living on her own. I had to move her into my home so that she had someone with her for most of the day. Surgeries are always scary but the older you are the more risk and the longer it takes to heal. She had a few hernias which was causing her tons of pain so we recently had those fixed via surgery. It been a rough recovery for her. Im honored im able to make sure shes comfy and able to watch her during this stage. This has been hard on her because shes not use to not doing everything alone.

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