Arcelia from California

cuido a mi madre de 82... no es facil.. tiene problemas de memoria, desconoce a mi esposo y a veces no sabe quien soy yo. no encuentra el bano y hace sus necesidades en su ropa interior. todos los dias le pido a Dios me de fuerzas y gracia para hacer lo correcto a pesar de las situaciones. me hablan de casa de retiro pero no creo sea lo correcto aparte de que mi situacion financier no me lo permitiria. Amo a mi madre y seguire adelante con la ayuda de Dios. Gracias

I take care of my 82 year old mother. It's not easy. She has problems with her memory, she doesn't recognize my husband and sometimes she doesn't know who I am. She can't find the bathroom and relieves herself in her underwear. Every day I pray to God to give me strength and grace to do what's right, despite these situations. People suggest that I take her to a retirement home, but I don't think it's the right thing to do, and I wouldn't be able to do it because of my financial situation. I love my mother and I will keep moving forward with God's help. Thank you.