Nora from West Virginia

I'm a seventy five year old woman that, until around July of this year 2016, I have been caring for my husband that has Parkinson's. Now I have someone coming in 2 hours in the morning and evening. He's been sick for about 6/7 years. It has been so hard. The problem is finding someone to work that I could afford. I'm not well either, I have sugar, high blood, congestive heart failure. Its bad when you draw too much to get help from SS, but not enough to hire help. I lucked out with a family member that works, for what I can pay. When she can no longer work, she has MS, I don't know what we will do. I don't draw enough for a nursing home for him, plus how I would live if we could pay for him.

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