Gary from New York

I cared for my wife Stephanie two years ago for a couple of months while she was mostly bedridden. She had surgery, which left her with an infection in her stomach. Each day I needed to clean and change her draining system a couple times while it healed. Throw in several trips to the doctor for close supervision and it is a full-time job. It was a slow process to heal, partly because she wasn't eating much at that time, either. But today she is healthy and well again, but it was a rough couple of months for us.

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