Scott D. from Indiana

After my grandmother died at 85 or 87, grandpa "just kept going..." I, along with my mom and aunt and uncle mowed his grass, bathed him, and just kept him going (meds, food, jokes, stories, etc.) until he re-met grandma 6 weeks shy of his 102nd birthday. This is something that will never be regretted...

I am also on call for my mom and aunt, but also for the other six widows in our neighborhood (I call it "Driving the Miss Daisies") for shopping, medicine runs, doctor appointments. I really haven't had a real job (W-2s, etc.), since 2000, when I was a census enumerator...I really need help...

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