Jacob from Missouri

Hi I'm Jake and I take care of my wife Teresa. She has severe weakness of her extremities, has had 3 unsuccessful back surgeries. She now has to use a walker or wheelchair depending on where she is. She frequently falls for no apparent reason and has very poor balance. She cannot lift her legs up to get into bed. She plans out a month of meals that I cook. I have to help her up and down the front steps when she has doctor appointments. She tends to be stubborn and still wants to do things on her own but I always stay close to make sure she is okay, this can be time consuming but is necessary. I would do anything for her as she is my best friend and the love of my life.

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