Darla from Pennsylvania

A year and a half ago my father passed away from Alzheimer's. My mother, who is a Breast Cancer survivor like me, was his main care giver. Unfortunately, she had her own medical issues. After my father passed, my mother did very little driving primarily because of her back issues and pain. She had minimal movement in the neck so driving was a challenge to say the least. That coupled with the double vision she received from her cancer radiation treatments, left her with no choice but to call on myself and my siblings. Fortunately, there are four of us living close enough to make sure she would get to doctor appointments, Physical Therapy for both her eyes and her body, grocery shopping, and any other need she might have. She's doing well and can soon drive again. I personally do not want anything for myself or my siblings. We would rather let mom take the win. Everyone knows how fixed incomes are, and every little bit helps. Thank you.

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